When it comes to sex, there’s one act that hits the spot, so to speak, time and time again – oral sex. As the name suggests, oral sex is making love with your partner using your mouth, your lips, your tongue and your breath. In my opinion, even when oral sex is not that good, it is still great and when it’s good, it’s exciting but the difference between great and exciting is quite an order of magnitude! There is one certainty that we should all be aware of: no matter whether you are a novice or regard yourself as a connoisseur, there is always more to learn – there are always we can do so much better and lift the excitement to that “Wow – please don’t stop!”
Maybe you aren’t a big fan of Opera - the uplifting Italian love arias, or the German Wagnerian heroes and Heroines, or even the comedic flair of Gilbert & Sullivan. There is something in operatic music that to me is the passion of life.
For years I san Opera and musical Theatre on many of the major stages of the world especially throughout Germany. I was privileged to learn from some of the great masters of my craft and later became an exacting, yet caring teacher to many aspiring singers.
Little did I know that what I learned as a singer and taught would apply to arts in the bed chamber. In the first instance, I developed a breathing control many only dream of and even though I do not sing professionally anymore I still teach couples the art of breathing for sublime pleasure (we will talk about this in a separate blog.) I pride myself on being fairly agile with my tongue, lips and mouth and I have been using many of the techniques that I learned when studying singing that helped me become an amazing giver of oral sex – and the best thing is that I enjoy it!
One of the biggest culprits to a singer is tension; jaw tension, tongue tension, neck tension and believe it or not pelvic floor tension. In many of my classes, I teach exercises to help an awareness of tension and ways to release tension. You may not even be aware that neck and jaw tension are having an effect on your abilities as a lover. So the first step – be aware! Are you clenching your teeth, are your shoulders lifted up and tight, is your tongue curled up in your mouth?
Many of you will know how to do kegels by tightening the pelvic muscles – well the same principle applies to the shoulder, neck and jaw area. Try tensing these areas as you take a nice deep breath, then relax the tension as you exhale. Other ways to help relax tension are through massage, stretching and movement.
No, I am not here to give you the techniques to exemplary oral pleasure. My recommendation is that you read Ian Kerner ‘s new radical new philosophy for pleasuring women She Comes First and Passionista - the Empowered Woman’s Guide to Pleasuring Her Man ... ...… both essential guidebooks to oral sex.
There are amazing things you can do with your mouth and tongue and with a few simple techniques, you can take your oral sex skills to a new level of mastery. You know when you are doing something right when you can see the look of excitement and pleasure in the eyes of your partner.
The journey through all the varying levels of lovemaking is the most pleasurable experience. Not necessarily just the end result. It’s all about making your partner feel like a true goddess or god.
Maybe you aren’t a big fan of Opera - the uplifting Italian love arias, or the German Wagnerian heroes and Heroines, or even the comedic flair of Gilbert & Sullivan. There is something in operatic music that to me is the passion of life.
For years I san Opera and musical Theatre on many of the major stages of the world especially throughout Germany. I was privileged to learn from some of the great masters of my craft and later became an exacting, yet caring teacher to many aspiring singers.
Little did I know that what I learned as a singer and taught would apply to arts in the bed chamber. In the first instance, I developed a breathing control many only dream of and even though I do not sing professionally anymore I still teach couples the art of breathing for sublime pleasure (we will talk about this in a separate blog.) I pride myself on being fairly agile with my tongue, lips and mouth and I have been using many of the techniques that I learned when studying singing that helped me become an amazing giver of oral sex – and the best thing is that I enjoy it!
One of the biggest culprits to a singer is tension; jaw tension, tongue tension, neck tension and believe it or not pelvic floor tension. In many of my classes, I teach exercises to help an awareness of tension and ways to release tension. You may not even be aware that neck and jaw tension are having an effect on your abilities as a lover. So the first step – be aware! Are you clenching your teeth, are your shoulders lifted up and tight, is your tongue curled up in your mouth?
Many of you will know how to do kegels by tightening the pelvic muscles – well the same principle applies to the shoulder, neck and jaw area. Try tensing these areas as you take a nice deep breath, then relax the tension as you exhale. Other ways to help relax tension are through massage, stretching and movement.
No, I am not here to give you the techniques to exemplary oral pleasure. My recommendation is that you read Ian Kerner ‘s new radical new philosophy for pleasuring women She Comes First and Passionista - the Empowered Woman’s Guide to Pleasuring Her Man ... ...… both essential guidebooks to oral sex.
There are amazing things you can do with your mouth and tongue and with a few simple techniques, you can take your oral sex skills to a new level of mastery. You know when you are doing something right when you can see the look of excitement and pleasure in the eyes of your partner.
The journey through all the varying levels of lovemaking is the most pleasurable experience. Not necessarily just the end result. It’s all about making your partner feel like a true goddess or god.
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